5 Ways to Keep Networking During the Summer Months – Careers.com Career Advice

Summer is synonymous with vacation. Many people want to take advantage of their accrued time off. Plus, who wants to start a job during prime vacation time when the prospect of any time off for several months is almost non-existent.

But just because your job search is on hold, it doesn’t mean you can take a break entirely. With the non-stop social gatherings like weddings, graduation parties and barbeques, why not take advantage of your networking opportunities?

Parties are a great way to expand your network if you know how to take advantage of the opportunity. Most likely, you’ll know at least one person at the party. You’ll have to break away from your comfort zone of acquaintances to get started. Here are five ways you can network at parties from “Make Your Contacts Count” (Amacom), by Lynne Waymon and Anne Baber.

Shelve your shyness
If you think of yourself as shy, you’re not alone. Many confident, poised and easygoing people were once shy and uncomfortable. In fact, one study claims that 50 percent of people think of themselves as shy. You can learn to get over your shyness, however. Recognize that others feel the same way. Practice your body language. Find a role model and make something that person does, like a confident handshake, part of your technique.

Join groups comfortably
At any gathering, people will be talking in groups. To join a group, use body language – touch someone’s arm gently but firmly, and usually the circle will naturally break for you to enter. Make eye contact with the person talking or smile at the listeners. Take a moment to tune into the conversation and participate when you’re ready. Introduce yourself when there’s a lull in the conversation.

Engage your partner
You can use body language to reward and encourage your partner. Establish eye contact. Nod your head for nonverbal encouragement. Be genial – show your partner you’re enjoying the conversation. Smile and use gestures. Aim your attention at your partner and ease your posture.

Be seriously curious
Networking isn’t just about talking, it’s also about listening. Don’t monopolize the conversation; encourage dialogue. Everyone has a story, use interview techniques to avoid dead-end questions. Ask people where they came from and how they got where they are. Make other people talk.

Be careful of turn-offs
Just as easily as you can enter a group, you can also have people scrambling to make a run for it. Don’t do monologues or tell all the details, they’re boring and will lose people’s attention. At the same time, don’t interrupt others. Persistence is a virtue but know when to stop probing. Be careful of flirting, becoming intoxicated or using offensive language. This type of behavior can make you an unattractive conversation partner at this and future events.

5 Ways to Keep Networking During the Summer Months – Careers.com Career Advice.